The Magic of Finding Your People | WildKind Collective


The WildKind Way

October 2026

The Magic of Finding Your People

We all crave connection, but finding meaningful friendships as adults isn't always easy. It's one of the reasons WildKind means so much to me.

This weekend, as we gather for our third annual Fall Camp, I'm looking forward to watching that familiar magic unfold. Newcomers arrive a little apprehensive, and by Sunday, they're laughing with people who feel like old friends, exchanging numbers, and making plans for their next adventure together.

But that magic extends far beyond our gatherings. Just recently, Rachael asked in Discord if anyone had a tamper she could borrow for a project. Morgan jumped in, asked her dad, and found one for her!

It's a small thing, but it makes my heart so happy. We're not just building a calendar of events. We're building a community that shows up for one another.

That's what I hope October brings you. Another opportunity to find your people, deepen a friendship, lend a helping hand, or remind someone that they have a place where they belong.

With love and a little wildness,

Steph Butler

Celebrate Community at Winchester Pride!

For our Wildlings who aren't attending Fall Camp this weekend, there's another wonderful opportunity to celebrate community!

Winchester Pride is happening this weekend, and we encourage everyone to get out and show their support for our local LGBTQIA+ community.

As a queer-founded nonprofit with LGBTQIA+ representation throughout our leadership, inclusivity isn't just something we talk about. It's woven into who we are and the community we're building.

In fact, we've moved our 2027 Fall Camp to November so we can participate in and support Winchester Pride next year!

Fresh From the WildKind Journal

Good Conversations Don't Have to End When the Event Does

Can't get enough WildKind? Neither can we!

Our blog, The WildKind Journal, is officially up and running!

We're creating a space for stories, ideas, and conversations about adult friendship, building community, embracing new experiences, personal growth, and finding your people.

Some posts will make you think. Others might make you laugh, feel seen, or finally give yourself permission to try something new.

Coming in October: Why Making Friends as an Adult Is So Hard.

Because wanting meaningful friendships is easy. Figuring out how to build them as an adult? That's another story.

Grab your favorite bev, get comfy, and spend a little time with us.

And if something resonates, forward it to a friend. You never know who might need those words today.

Good Things Are Better Shared

Bring a Friend. Make a Friend. Be a Friend.

Our little corner of the world keeps growing, and we're so glad you're part of it!

Our community is booming on Facebook, TikTok, and Discord, and we'd love for you to join the conversation wherever you feel most at home.

Have a friend who's been saying they want to get out more, try something new, or meet new people?

Invite them along to an event, share our community with them, or forward this newsletter their way.

Sometimes all someone needs is a personal invitation.

More Ways to Support WildKind

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Help Keep WildKind Fee-Free

WildKind is powered entirely by volunteers, but keeping our community running still comes with operational costs. Your generosity helps us continue creating welcoming spaces, meaningful experiences, and opportunities for connection without charging membership fees.

We're a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, and donations are tax-deductible. Every little bit makes a difference!

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